What is depression,find out the problem behind the depression and try to solve it

 

   A common thing which is happen with us many times that is Depression. Today we are going to discuss that what is Depression? Why Depression is so pathetic?
       First of all, if we think about depression, then we see so many things which kill us many times, and when some depressionistic things came to our mind. That may be ---
1) Why?
2) Why me?
3) What will be happen with me?
4) Not enought..
5) No one cares
6) Why cares?
7) Not worthy
8) Give up
9) Alone
10) Ugly
11) Separation
12) Stupid
13) Suicide.... etc.
        A example I want to give - A 15/16 years boy or a girl : can you guess what is their problem?
Their problem always be like - "he/she left me, my love is no more, i am falling in love, so i don't need anythings, etc...etc..." If they fail in love, their decision always be like suicide. It is the biggest problem in the world. The youngers don't think anything. Actually they are confusing between love and attraction. This is common with the youngers. Love is the most beautifull feeling. This feeling happens with every people. But now-a-days it seems the biggest problem of youngers. But, the problem is created by their own. They don't think deeply nothing.
        SO, i just tell about some little things , next you think and decide---

1) Think about your feeling deeply.

2) Is that really love?

3) IF that is love, why you care for others feelings?

4) It is just your feeling, don't share with another persons and it is not important whom person you loved, he/she have to love you. Don't care.

5) Yes, of course, love is a great feeling that you can live with your love. But don't think negatively.
Think positive and respect your own feeling.

      One more thing I want to say, about life. Life is the best gift from GOD. But, many times so many teenagers ended their life for some stupid things.It is the one time offer from GOD. Don't play with it.

       So many people are depressing about their life. Because they think so little things which is not necessary----

1) I am ugly.

2)why everybody neglet me?

3) Everybody cheaton me, why only me?

4) I am not perfect, no one is my friend.

     And their option always be like suicide or elopement. Remember, if you elope from the problem, it is not the solution. Face it with brave, and solve it.

     Next i want to discuss about separation. When everybody separate you for so many reason, take it easy and face it with a smile. You can think you are different from other people, YES, you are unique.
So do that thing which is unique, which is not relate with common things. We just need a new though.
You are ugly, then its OK, you can do nice things. You will not reminded by your beauty, you will reminded by your work. So why you don't think differently? We all are common but we can do different.

    Today so many students are running after competition. If they can't get 1st position they immediately turn into depression. IS it necessary to take 1st position? Is it necessary to take IIT

degree?There are so many work which is suitable for us. So why are we running? DO the work which is your own, which is your favorite and enjoyable.

    Success can't come from competition , it can come from you.

    One common problem-- so many students who are confusing between arts and science and commarce after 10th pass. Some students forcefully go to the subject which is not for them. And they can' t handle. What will be their last option? Suicide, is it right ? Why you don't think which is better for you?

    A person experience-- A 40 years old person, he maximum come to our home. One day he said that his wife is only responsibility for him. Then I ask why? He said, she never gave me care, love or mental happiness. Then i ask how can both you live? With whom? He just replied with one word - " for our daughter , nothing else"

    It is right to take responsibility, But for a happy life, love,care, everything is important.
 
    If you think deeply, decide is the main point of your all happiness. If you decide wrong, then can't be happy. You have to decide what is you? What is suitable for you? who is better with you........

    So simple, happiness is outside in your door; just open it.....

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